Nothing fancy here. Simple reflections or random thoughts about the everyday happenings of the Smith wife and mommy.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Black Friday
For many years I had heard tales of people getting trampled, losing fingers, even dying when they ventured out to save big on the latest appliances, toys, etc. So naturally, I was nervous about what I was going to see at the Wal-Mart in the little town they call Kennett.
My only sliver of reconciliation is that we were going to be in the company of my sister-in-law. She doesn't take crap from anyone so I was fully prepared to stay by her side the whole time. I slowly got dressed and Jordan some how managed to get me into the car. We arrive at a half full parking lot 15 minuets later and I feel my heard start to race.
We walked into the store and I was preparing myself for a scene of blood and flying limbs, mothers cussing out employees and children crying. Basically I was waiting to see anarchy at it's greatest.
Was I so pleasantly surprised when we walked in the Wal-Mart and merely received a ticket for the item we wanted and waited in line. People were greeting each other and exchanging stories about how Little Johnny and Little Susie are just dying to have the New Whatchamacallit. It was wonderful. Jordan and I got everything we had on our list (and some more) all while I kept all 10 of my much needed fingers.
All of us left with our goodies and hit the McD's drive through from some sweet tea and coffee. When we got back to my in-law's house, little Shadow was greeting us with smiles. Overall, it was a fun and happy morning. The afternoon, however, brought out my "sleepy grumpies". But I suppose that was worth it considering I can now watch Harry Potter in HD! :)
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Why I love November
First of all, November is the month where I feel fall has finally arrived. I can bring out my sweatshirts, boots, fleece, blankets, slippers, and hot chocolate and not fret about the next day being close to 70 degrees.
Second-Birthdays! My birthday falls on November 12. My mother's is November 10th. I have a couple good girlfriends that have their birthdays in November. Can I also say that Laura Bush(11/4), Grace Kelly (11/12), Claude Monet (11/14), Calvin Klein (11/19), Scarlett Johansson (11/22) C.S. Lewis (11/29), and Winston Churchill (11/30) all have November birthdays. Do you see the trend? Apparently all brilliant, fascinating, and attractive people are born in November ;)
Third-Thanksgiving. It's such an important holiday and doesn't get all the attention is deserves because Christmas has already run over it. But I like to give Thanksgiving its due focus because I don't want it to feel overlooked. It's such a simple and sweet holiday really. A day to remind us to be thankful and gracious in all circumstances. To remind ourselves that we are blessed to have our friends, family, health, and animals that just happen to taste so good.
And last-but certainty not least-Jordan and I were married in November. This past November 21st marked our 1st anniversary. I never imagined the day I would become someones wife, much less celebrate it a year later. I know time is relative to everyone. A year can be considered long, or very short. But celebrating this 1 year seemed to be the final kick in the head that said, "Yes you are married! Yes you are loved! and Yes it is gooooood! It was as if I could say, "Well we made it the first year, the next 59 don't really seem like a big deal! Bring it!" This short (or long) year seems like such an accomplishment.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
A Short Story.
Since I haven't posted anything in a while I thought I would pull from some old un-posted material. This is from a while ago but still sends a message we all need to hear from time to time.~~~~~~~~
I would like to tell you a story about Dot and the land she called home. Dot loved her school and where she lived. She wanted to tell everyone about it and encourage people to come and explore this place that she so loved. One day she thought she should pay a visit to the Wizard. She wanted to let him know that the land he governed had a special place in her heart, but she was unhappy. As she walked along the blue and gold path, she came across Gossip.
“May I go with you to see the Wizard, Dot?” Gossip asked.
“I’m afraid not.” Dot answered. “You see, if I bring you along, people are less likely to trust me and confide in me. Sometimes the things you say hurt people and they might lose respect for you.”
Looking a little rattled, Gossip went on to ask, “What if I asked the Wizard to grant me honesty, then may I go with you?”
“Ok, you can come.” Dot said.
After a few minutes, Dot and Gossip were met with Favoritism.
“Where are you going?” Favoritism asked.
“We are going to pay the wizard a visit.” Dot and Gossip replied.
“Can I go with you?”
“No, I’m afraid not. If you come along people are going to see that you favor others and don’t let the rules apply to everyone. Then they will feel like they are unimportant or unequal.” Dot said.
“If I ask the Wizard for fairness, will you let me come?” Favoritism asked
“Ok, you can come.” Dot said.
They had almost reached the place where the Wizard lived when they came across Mr. Unprofessional.
“Where are you going?” He asked.
“We are going to pay the Wizard a visit.” The group replied.
“Can I come too?
“I don’t think that would be a good idea. If you come along with us, then others will not respect you or look up to you. They might become angry with the way you handle different situations among our group or may dislike the way you treat others.”
“If I asked the Wizard for morals and ethics, would you let me come?”
“Ok, you can come.” Dot said.
So all three met up with the Wizard. Dot explained how much she loved her home and how much she wanted others to see it likes he does, but that the people in her group sometimes make it hard. So the Wizard granted Gossip some honesty, Favoritism some fairness and Mr. Unprofessional some morals and ethics. And Dot was happy.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
The Seventh Month Itch
I can see it in his little face everyday. Shadow would rather say hi mommy than "ahhh". He would rather have chicken then pureed bananas. He would rather get up and walk into the kitchen than crawl there and he would rather play basketball for the Kansas Jayhawks than push a little ball around on the floor. (OK that last one is mine.) But seriously, he is just over being a little baby and I'm not sure what I can do to help him get over this "itch."
If only I could convince him that being 8 months old is going to be so much cooler than being 7 months old. If only he could understand me when I say "be patient little one." But since he is still a baby, he doesn't. And I think that is OK. After all, if I had my choice, he would be 7 months old a lot longer than he would like to be.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
No final roses here
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Drive there, sleep here, and start all over again...
The whirlwind of hotel rooms, college fairs, schools visits, fast food drive thru's that is travel season has consumed our lives for the past month, and will continue for the next month or so. Jordan will be in Missouri, or I will be in Tennessee for weeks at a time, and little Shadow will be in Murray. Crazy.
I might start my day with a couple school visits then call the babysitter to check in on Shadow. Drive another 30 minutes to get to my next school while talking to my husband. Grab something to eat and drive to my college fair while talking to my mom (who has been staying with Shadow for the weeks both of us have been out of town, God bless her), then remind myself where I need to be tomorrow so I know which hotel I am staying at. Check in, call the hubby, check email, and try to get some sleep while convincing myself I don't hear Shadow crying because he isn't there. Then start all over again for the next day. Although I can't really say this because the next day's schedule is going to be nothing like what I mentioned above.
But, let me tell you, we are Troopers. Yes, being a married admission counselor with a small child is not for the faint of heart my friends. It's bittersweet. I'm thankful that I have a job and that I work for an institution that I truly believe in. But, being away from my family has been hard. Did I mention I'm taking a Grad class during all this..............?
Anyways, despite the craziness, I have come to appreciate my friends and family. They have offered help to us to get us through this travel season and it has meant a lot to have their support. I'm also reminded how much I love my family, and just how wonderful they truly are. So, I can totally see this as a positive thing. Recruit new Racers to a great university, and be reminded that I am very blessed. I'll take it.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Bye Sophie :(
Monday, August 16, 2010
A word from Shadow Smith
Monday, July 26, 2010
The family begins
We chose Cancun as our honeymoon destination. I love the beach. Again, I LOVE the beach! The resort was fabulous and all inclusive. We had a great time just laying outside, enjoying the sun and the water and the unlimited amount of pina coladas. After our first couple of days there, the bartenders would see Jordan coming up and immediately start pouring "one alcohol, one non-alcohol." Our trip to Cancun ended and we headed back to Kentucky, ready to start our life together and to enjoy the last few months of it being just "us."
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Summer 2009
We would take several trips to KY lake
We took a trip to the Biltmore Estate in North Carolina......
My favorite trip that summer was to New York City. (I could go on and on about how much I love New York, but maybe later.) I had never been and this was Jordan's third trip. We had an incredible time touring the city and I remember thinking this was "it". "It" as in something life changing. I had found the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and it was scary. I figured it was too soon to really start sharing these feelings with him, but apparently this was Jordan's plan from he start. During our trip to New York we thought about other places we could go to and experience together. Places we wanted to live one day, things we wanted to do, jobs/careers we wanted to pursue, things we wanted to buy, etc, etc, etc!! We were very much in love and we felt unstoppable.
God must have been looking down on us laughing so hard, because he had other plans for Jordan and I. When the summer ended, He handed us challenge, a surprise. This little plan B would be a perfect wake up call to remind us that God is in charge of our lives, no matter what plans we make for ourselves.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
It was like shooting a sitting duck
Regardless of what I thought, it was a date from the start. We had a great time and as the night progressed my mind was going crazy analyzing mine and his every move, every word said, every look. After all, I am a girl. I wanted to let myself get swept up in my emotions and the moment, but I also wanted to think about things logically. The cynic in me would keep saying, "just a night out with a buddy, no worries." But deep down, I knew this was something more. Jordan and I had made a connection long before we went to see the show and frankly, it was only a matter of time until our friendship would evolve. As cliche as it sounds, we were meant for each other, and there wasn't any getting around it.
After the show I was dead set on going back to Murray and calling it a night, but Jordan had other plans. After a very convincing speech in a booth at a Steak and Shake, we started dating. This was hard for me because I wanted so badly to remain completely professional at work. Jordan and I always had a good working relationship and a great friendship. What if things don't work out? What if one of us gets hurt yet we still have to face the other at work? What if our bosses find out!! What if, What if, What if. I was freaking out. (Which seems so silly now). There were a lot of factors to consider. But as the days went on, I began to see that this was going to be completely worth it. This was wonderfully different and was definitely worth a try.
Eventually our office did find out (it's hard to keep stuff from them anyway! love you all.) and there was nothing left to hide. And I think most of them would tell you they knew all along.
And so I found myself dating my co-worker, something I never thought would happen. But oh how happy I am that it did! Many thanks to Mamma Mia and Steak and Shake!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
And we begin...
For those of you not from the Western Kentucky region, you will find Murray nestled nearly in the Western most part of the state. It's only about 20 minutes from the beautiful Land Between the Lakes region. It is here that I call home. Of course, I will always consider myself a Kansan at heart.
Murray is a welcoming community of about 16,000 people. A charming mini-metropolis of churches, restaurants, businesses, the most hospitable people you will ever meet, and home of Murray State University.
Murray State University is what brought me to Murray in the first place. I decided to attend Murray because it truly is the perfect balance between the big and the small. It was a small enough to make my education personal, and big enough to offer me numerous option to learn, get involved, and meet a lot people. Yet, it wasn't so big to where I was distracted from the main reason I was there, which was to graduate of course.
And graduate I did. I took 5 years (changing majors will do that) and wound up getting hired to work as an Admission Counselor in the Office of Recruitment. Wonderful! I would get to recruit for my Alma Mater and stay in a town that I had grown to love. Life was good! And it was here, in Murray KY, at Murray State, in the Office of Recruitment, that I began to get to know my co-workers. One I would get to know extremely well. Indeed, Murray would be very good place to start!